Intimacy.

By the noun definition intimacy is the "close familiarity or friendship; closeness", while the euphemistic definition reads "an intimate act, especially sexual intercourse." As kids we are taught intimacy, but are we ever taught the proper ways to differentiate these 2 specific definitions? No, and the way most teenage girls in specific learn about intimacy is by being "fast" or "too grown" as most adults would say. When in reality most girls are trying to explore the world and themselves all by theirselves because no adult wants to teach them about the euphemistic definition of intimacy, and once they do go out and engage in an intimate act they get shamed upon. "Why?" you may ask when boys do the same thing at the same age and or younger. Well because girls "virginity" are deemed more sacred than boys. Or at least that's what our parents want us to think, because that's what their parents forced into their pre mature minds when they were growing up. For generations and generations sexism been implemented upon us. (Which i'll get to in an upcoming blog.) In general the whole stigma around women having intercourse is weird and adults as well as other teenagers must stop shaming girls for having sex and wanting to explore themselves in another dimension. IT IS WEIRD! Instead adults should want to guide us and teach us about the euphemism definition of intimacy so we don’t feel the need to go out and have sex. Feeling wanted is also a big part of why young girls go and give their body away. Their family make them feel so useless and less than so they go and find fulfillment the best way they know how. Basically, everything i’m saying starts with the parents and family. Before you shame your kids reflect on your parenting and nitpick at that first then have a conversation with your child.